What would you do?

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Should there be an honus on trans-folk to disclose their status before anything physical develops? It seems the judge thinks the honus was on him to find out, not her to disclose first

I'm not saying she deserved a beating mind but I don't suppose I'd be too pleased if I was in his position either

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9709617/Thug-beat-transgender-woman-discovered-male-genitalia-jailed-16-months.html

I would think if people have anything to reveal that may affect the relationship they should reveal it fairly early on before things get too serious.
It may be hard for. their new partner to take, but the longer it goes before discussing it, the greater danger there is of the other partner feeling resentful, hurt and angry.
Tough one for anyone involved in this scenario though