dickythorpe said:You know all the facts then?
Interesting.
Where did I say that?
What’s your issue with her putting it on Instagram?
dickythorpe said:You know all the facts then?
Interesting.
ARQS said:dickythorpe said:You know all the facts then?
Interesting.
Where did I say that?
What’s your issue with her putting it on Instagram?
JackSomething said:It may not be true would be the concern, although it boggles my mind to think anyone would be so twisted as to post something like that if it wasn't true.
ARQS said:JackSomething said:It may not be true would be the concern, although it boggles my mind to think anyone would be so twisted as to post something like that if it wasn't true.
Well then the issue is a false/malicious accusation not plastering injuries all over social media.
It must have taken her a lot of guts for her to have posted it.
The shame is on him for doing it, not her for exposing it.
ARQS said:JackSomething said:It may not be true would be the concern, although it boggles my mind to think anyone would be so twisted as to post something like that if it wasn't true.
Well then the issue is a false/malicious accusation not plastering injuries all over social media.
It must have taken her a lot of guts for her to have posted it.
The shame is on him for doing it, not her for exposing it.
PSumbler said:A lot of guts and you can probably also draw the assumption that it is not the first time its happened?
ARQS said:PSumbler said:A lot of guts and you can probably also draw the assumption that it is not the first time its happened?
Probably not even only the 20th time it’s happened.
The statistics on how many attempts it takes a person to leave a perpetrator/seek help are absolutely terrifying.
You can bet she’s feeling a great deal of shame and regret today, despite the fact that she has no reason to feel them. The last thing people in her position need are thoughtless and ignorant comments like Dicky’s. Not that she reads this board but there may be people in her position who do.
Neath_Jack said:ARQS said:Probably not even only the 20th time it’s happened.
The statistics on how many attempts it takes a person to leave a perpetrator/seek help are absolutely terrifying.
You can bet she’s feeling a great deal of shame and regret today, despite the fact that she has no reason to feel them. The last thing people in her position need are thoughtless and ignorant comments like Dicky’s. Not that she reads this board but there may be people in her position who do.
You've highlighted the power of trauma bonding there. You'll often hear people say things like "why has it taken her so long" or "why hasn't she left him earlier if he's like that".
Heart breaking.
Bit odd isn't it?ARQS said:dickythorpe said:You know all the facts then?
Interesting.
Where did I say that?
What’s your issue with her putting it on Instagram?
exiledclaseboy said:I’ve just heard the audio of him what seems to be essentially raping her. Sickening.
The last thing people in her position need are thoughtless and ignorant comments like Dicky’s.ARQS said:PSumbler said:A lot of guts and you can probably also draw the assumption that it is not the first time its happened?
Probably not even only the 20th time it’s happened.
The statistics on how many attempts it takes a person to leave a perpetrator/seek help are absolutely terrifying.
You can bet she’s feeling a great deal of shame and regret today, despite the fact that she has no reason to feel them. The last thing people in her position need are thoughtless and ignorant comments like Dicky’s. Not that she reads this board but there may be people in her position who do.
dickythorpe said:exiledclaseboy said:I’ve just heard the audio of him what seems to be essentially raping her. Sickening.
What???
exiledclaseboy said:I’ve just heard the audio of him what seems to be essentially raping her. Sickening.