"my main response to us losing is to shrug and forget about it 5 minutes later."
This, absolutely, is what it's come to. I was there with my bro and his lad as usual, and when we conceded a goal in 57 seconds, we just looked at each other and laughed and everyone around us just seemed to give a collective shrug. Nobody jumped up and yelled like they would normally because nobody cared enough to bother. Walking away from the ground, it didn't really feel like we'd lost because it just doesn't hurt any more.
One thing I did feel though after the big improvement in the second half, due, it should be said, almost entirely to the substitutes, was that we could well have won that if we'd had last season's Joel Piroe instead of this season's because during the last 30, we got behind them several times and when the ball was cut back there was nobody there at all the first time and nobody really busting a gut to get there on any of the other occasions. That's just not getting the simple basics right. But what has happened to Piroe? It's sad to see him struggling so much.